Beyond the Basic: Why "Just Add Ice" Changes Everything
- David Avritt
- Jul 24
- 4 min read
Imagine reaching for a basic need – a simple glass of water. Now, picture someone handing you that glass, but it's already filled with sparkling, refreshing ice. That unexpected, thoughtful touch transforms an ordinary moment into something truly extraordinary. It’s more than just a drink; it's a feeling of being genuinely seen, deeply cared for, and truly valued. This isn't just about ice; it's about a profound philosophy, a way of life, that can redefine every interaction and unlock a powerful ripple effect.
In a world craving genuine connection amidst complex challenges, this simple principle has been the quiet force behind truly impactful leadership. From the soul-winning drive of Pastor Hyles to the doctrinal depth of Dr. Ruckman, the foundational building of Pastor Chappell, and the steadfast wisdom of Pastor Trieber, diverse leaders across generations have found their power in mastering the art of "Just add ice" to people's lives. Even in the digital sphere, voices like Justin Khoe, a spiritual counselor and digital evangelist with over 120,000 YouTube subscribers, and Andrew Henry of Religion for Breakfast, who provides an academic study of religion to over 1 million YouTube subscribers, exemplify this principle by offering thoughtful content that goes beyond the surface to meet spiritual and intellectual needs. Additionally, T.D. Jakes, a powerhouse pastor known for his passionate and encouraging messages, inspires millions with his hope-filled teaching and global reach beyond The Potter's House congregation. Craig Groeschel is also admired for his innovation and authenticity, openly sharing his struggles and leading Life.The church is embracing technology, such as the YouVersion Bible App, to make spiritual resources accessible to millions.
My own journey to understanding this began unexpectedly, at a camp serving children from tough situations. Our seasoned director revealed a profound truth: to truly reach hearts, you don't just provide, you serve with that extra, thoughtful step – you "Just add ice". I experienced its immediate impact, witnessing firsthand how a simple act of genuine care could break through barriers and plant seeds of change. I believe God has led me to grasp this powerful truth, and I'm eager for you to discover how this principle, which involves "Just add ice", can profoundly transform your life and positively influence those around you.
"When your compassion leads to proactive care, that's when you truly 'Just add ice'." - Chaplain David
When I was at camp helping young kids for a couple of weeks, the kids had some type of parent in the jail system, or they were in foster care because both parents were in the jail system. The camp director, who has over years of experience working with kids in tough situations, dealing with loved ones in the jail system, has started many camps internationally and in the United States. In every camp in the U.S. and internationally, all the kids had a loved one in the jail system. The bottom line is it wasn't their fault that they got caught up in the environment of the jail system. During one of the staff meetings, he made the following comment: "If you want kids to love you and respect you, then serve them." Then he said this profound phrase as an example: "They want more water, so instead of pouring water into the cup, go and 'Just add ice' first, then the water. You'll see a different attitude". For a whole week, I added ice to the cup before adding the water. I was able to plant a seed in their lives at a quicker rate because I just added ice.
I believe God is letting me hear these words: "Just add ice", because it's making a big difference in my walk in life and spiritual journey. I saw the immediate impact of this principle: by the end of the camp, during meal times, the young children were pouring drinks into my glass. People will notice when you "Just add ice" to their lives.
"When you 'Just add ice', you’re not just meeting a need—you’re creating a moment someone will remember." - Chaplain David
This powerful principle of going the extra mile isn't just for camp, but for every aspect of serving others. It's about recognizing needs and then exceeding expectations with thoughtful, generous actions, always finding a way to add a touch of kindness.
The "Just add ice" Philosophy: Defining Genuine Care
"Anyone can 'add water.' The art of genuine care lies in 'adding the ice' —that unexpected touch that shows you truly considered their comfort, not just their request." - Chaplain David
The phrase "Instead of just adding water, 'Just add ice', then come back and pour water" serves as a powerful metaphor for how we should approach serving others. It's about transcending basic needs and anticipating what would genuinely improve someone's experience, followed by consistent, ongoing care.
This entire philosophy centers on the deliberate choice to "Just add ice".
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